I Samuel 20:30, 33 Saul's love of David is now a terrible nightmare! His beloved “harp player” is now playing for his son, his son has fallen obsessively in love with a servant, and Saul's own sexual confusion only heightens his volatile emotions resulting in numerous attempts to murder David. Yet David remains totally loyal to him at all times, for Saul is God's anointed - David is truly a man after God's heart

Here's that spear again ...